<谁的生活不造作>

  常有人问我,情人分手之后,要怎样当朋友?总是反问他或她:"分手了为什么还要当朋友?"我对这种事很悲观,或者是现实.当情人要分手,必然累计了很多失望,背叛,伤害,这种种痛苦的尖锐,绝不是寻常友情会经历的.既然有没这么痛楚的撕裂,怎么还能云淡风轻地当朋友?"如果分手就老死不相往来,又好像太没风度了."这是最常听见的理由.既然已经不能相爱了,还计较那些无关紧要的风度做什么?勉强自己或勉强对方,都太造作.

PS:那确实,分手了就不再是朋友,最好永远不要遇到!

 

<八月的浅蓝问候>

  每一种生活都有它的喜与忧,幸福的关键不是我们整拥有着什么,而在于如何看待自己的拥有.悲哀和烦恼遍布于每个人的生命,学会遗忘和忽略是美好生活的基石,沉缅于其中则是最大的不幸.

 

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着急的事,慢慢地说;大事要事,想清楚说;小事琐事,幽默地说;做不到的事,不随便说;伤人的事,坚决不说;没有的事,不要胡说;别人的事,谨慎地说;自己的事,坦诚直说;该做的事,做好再说;将来的事,到时再说.

 

自己的话:非常享受在周六的阳光午后,和老杨一起享受阅读吓掰时光,那叫一轻松愉快!

One More Time
Laura Pausini

nothing I must do
nowhere I should be
no one in my life
to answer to but me
no more candlelight
no more purple skies
no more  to be near
as my heart slowly dies
if I could hold you one more time
like in the days when you were mine
I'd look at you 'till I was blind
so you would stay
I'd say a prayer each time you'd smile
cradle the moments like a child
I'd stop the world if only I
could hold you one more time

I've memorized your face
I know your touch by heart
still lost in your embrace
I'd dream of where you are

I'd dream of where you are

if I could hold you one more time
like in the days when you where mine
I'd look at you 'till I was blind
so you would stay
I'd say a prayer each time you'd smile
cradle the moments like a child
I'd stop the world if only I
could hold you one more time
one more time

我要好好悔过... ...

想清楚什么是对自己最重要的,既然有些事情能力有限,自己又不是那种一心可以两用的人,就不要勉强.踏实的做好本职工作吧~!

我再也不逃课了,我再也不上课讲话了,我再也不不预习功课了,我再也不得过且过了,我再也不整晚看电视剧不搞学习了,我再也不随便相信别人而动摇自己的决定了,我再也不随便放弃制定好的计划了,我再也不让爸妈失望了... ...

 

PS:爸妈来珠海看我,很感动外加小心酸和不忍,海泉湾泡温泉很幸福!